Dear Reader,

I’m a 27-year-old Cuban-American flight attendant who's begun to wander, dream, and envision a life far beyond my hometown. I’m often fantasizing about my “dream life,” and although many people say I already have a good life, I find myself wondering: when I do have that life I fantasize about, will I simply start dreaming of another one? People describe me as smart, personable, and beautiful but I’m really just a quiet introvert, traveling the world with an unsuccessful dating life. In my free time, you’ll find me cozied up with a book (preferably a Freida McFadden novel!,) baking at home, hiking, or buried in homework. I’m currently studying communications and media in college and plan to pursue a master’s degree in journalism. With my love for writing, I hope this blog allows me to connect with readers all around the world.

Inspired by Sex and the City, I decided to create this blog after a guy I was talking to ended things out of the blue while I was on vacation in England. He simply said it wasn’t going to work, even though I thought everything was going right. That left me thinking, “Is this happening to others too? Do men and women alike have a hard time creating a relationship? How many guys will I have to meet before finding ‘the one’?” Is dating really just a numbers game? However, I’ve noticed a pattern: I date mostly at work; pilots and sometimes flight attendants; yet none of those connections have turned into real relationships; they seem to only want something casual. I also seem drawn to older men; mid-thirties to forties (but they don’t look 40, Lol!) So, I’ve decided to change things up and meet someone closer to my age, outside of my workplace bubble. Yet the guy that dumped me while in London is 6 months younger than me and works in marketing! I'm I dating wrong? Choosing wrong? I don’t have a problem meeting a man; I just simply can't seem to keep a man.